HAPPILY EVER AFTER

    Do happily ever after do really happen, or is it a long far fetch dream of people who don’t want to come in tune with reality? 

In my opinion, and I repeat again, IN MY OPINION, I think happily ever after does happen but only to those who really work for it and are open to the endless possibilities it brings with it. Not to forget that, to be happy in every sense, is a choice one has to make. No matter how far or how long, happiness isn’t in tangible things but in intangible things.

The Cinderella tales or the Rapunzel story may be fables but in every stories or fables there is always an iota or element of truth. 

Some people don’t even believe in ‘happily ever after’ and this is like saying you don’t believe in dogs and again that is my opinion. Thinking of this makes me kind of realize that we determine our own happily ever after, even Snow White had to work out her ‘happily ever after’ with her seven dwarfs. 

So if you want to have any ‘happily ever after’ relationships (formal or informal) there’s got to be a WORKING. So how do you WORK at a relationship you don’t know even know if it will work or needs working? Hmmm, good point? 

 Well, the truth of the matter is that anything worth having needs WORK. When I was younger, I heard some say that "Even heavenly made marriage need a down to earth maintenance”. Don’t know how true that is but it makes sense.

 

Most of the time we just lay back and think we will figure things out along the way. Hell no, things don’t just happen…you have to make it happen. 

Playing my role in any relationship is one way to make it work. 

Getting information and education on how to make relationship is also a point breaker. 

You need to know and understand what makes any relationship work. When you have information on how relationship works, even when you feel like you have had enough of driving the car, you just keep on steering and not give up because you know that it is just but for a season. 

Never leave any relationship to chance, believe me if you do it will come back to bite you in the ass. Most times we have this misconception that the grass is greener on the other side when the truth of the matter is that the grass isn’t and it only looks green on the other side because the other side waters its grass. 

 So, if you want a happily ever after relationship don’t leave it to chance. Get information, play your part and work at it. If you want, get it. 

So be real and be true, to yourself 

Peace!!! Gentlehawk